"I first heard about The Four Agreements when a college basketball
coach used it as a motivational tool for each player on his
team. The team ended up overachieving, going deep into the NCAA
Tournament, so perhaps there may be something to these Four Agreements.
Here they are...
1. Be impeccable (without sin, faultless, flawless)
with your word. Don't lie to yourself and don't lie to others. Clear
communication is essential to your well-being and to the well-being of
others.
2. Don't take anything personally. If somebody says
to you "Hey, you got a big nose" and you run off to get a rhinoplasty,
you will be buying into someone else's dream of what a nose ought to
look like and all of their prior socialization as pertaining to the
pulchritude of the nose. Live your own dream.
3. Don't make assumptions. If you make assumptions
without having any expertise, you won't question your own premises and
you won't ask questions of others. Chances are you'll be vulnerable to
gossip and false information.
Using the Four Agreements takes practice, a lifetime of practice, but I can certainly see its potential."
--Pete
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